tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564100621394702777.post1369043796547995125..comments2024-03-18T00:48:53.563-07:00Comments on between the paper sheets: be kindHattiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03166768638822479118noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564100621394702777.post-17476261085968157712012-02-01T10:12:31.797-08:002012-02-01T10:12:31.797-08:00I love this post. I have noticed that its common k...I love this post. I have noticed that its common knowledge not to complain about pregnancy around someone who is suffering through infertility. I look at it like this, every person should be able to freely and comfortably talk about what they are going through and get support. Right now I want support on ttc, but hopefully soon I will want support on how throwing up really sucks! I have been working personally on being judgemental of others. It is a flaw of mine that I want to change.Just Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06315564549299993908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564100621394702777.post-64854930039924230952012-02-01T07:55:37.649-08:002012-02-01T07:55:37.649-08:00Let me add that I always reserved my complaints fo...Let me add that I always reserved my complaints for Max's ears only. I too hate the thought of hurting someone. And I would never drink champagne again for the promise of bringing home a baby and having a long, healthy life with a child. Without a doubt, it would be worth it. But I would definitely miss the bubbly!Hattiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03166768638822479118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564100621394702777.post-16701882526622185072012-01-31T22:02:54.201-08:002012-01-31T22:02:54.201-08:00I never complained about not being able to have a ...I never complained about not being able to have a drink for that very reason of wanting to seem grateful for my luck. And also didn't want to hurt anyone who may hear me in case they were trying to get pregnant. I also love champagne...a lot. And I missed it.<br /><br />I know what you are saying about people judging people though. I was always a little unsure about nursing but was afraid people would judge me for even thinking about not doing it. I wasn't given that decision when my babies passed away, but I still wonder why people care so much about others' decisions. As long as they are a good parent, who cares?ADSchillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13972164121690415796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564100621394702777.post-50331967152530398262012-01-31T20:42:31.745-08:002012-01-31T20:42:31.745-08:00Well said. I've definitely fallen into the cat...Well said. I've definitely fallen into the category of being overly judgmental of others. And what it all comes down to is the fact that I'm unhappy for some reason: be it hearing a pregnancy announcement while I'm in the middle of treatment or listening to someone complain about their boss after I've spent a long day busting my butt. But you have a very good point that the competitiveness and judgment can go WAY too far and that we are only stronger if we support one another.<br /><br />So, I'm looking forward to you complaining very soon about not being able to have champagne. I may even remind you of it. Because pregnancy is scary and motherhood, though wonderful, is far from an easy job.Cristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.com